Despite an agonizing loss to buddy Fran Marrello in the Connecticut Section PGA Spring Stroke Play Championship that cost him a spot in the Travelers Championship, life has been pretty darn good for John Paesani the last few weeks.
First, his daughter, Kristen, a standout student at RHAM High School in Hebron who works for dad at Norwich Golf Course and is headed to the University of Rhode Island this fall, was one of 16 outstanding teens to receive a William "Widdy" Neale Scholarship from the Connecticut State Golf Association last week.
"She really is a terrific gal," dad said proudly. "She has fought through some tough family times with my divorce, so I'm really proud of her."
Kristen is also proud of dad as she stated during an interview with a five-person selection committee that I've been delighted to serve on for more than a decade after being fortunate to receive a Neale Scholarship while attending the University of Connecticut after graduating from Litchfield High School. I was nominated by Litchfield Country Club, where I began caddying and playing at 10 years old after moving from Baltimore.
"I have so much fun watching dad play," Kristen said. "He really enjoys playing, and I really enjoy watching him."
Kristen has especially enjoyed watching dad in the Buick/Travelers Championship at TPC River Highlands in Cromwell and the 2010 U.S. Senior Open at Sahalee Country Club in Sammamish, Wash. She would have watched dad in another Travelers Championship last week, but he three-putted the final hole to fall into a six-way playoff and was the last player eliminated by Marrello on the sixth extra hole May 25.
"I just gave it away," Paesani said. "Missed a three-footer to win."
But Paesani recovered from that disappointment on Monday when he birdied the 18th hole to shoot a 4-under-par 68 to tie former PGA Tour winners Willie Wood and U.S. Ryder Cup Team member Steve Pate for medalist honors in the U.S. Senior Open qualifier at Seven Oaks GC in Hamilton, N.Y. Paesani also beat former PGA Tour players such as Trevor Dodds, Jim Rutledge, Ronnie Black and Mike Hulbert for a berth in the 150-man field July 28-31 at the Inverness Club in Toledo, Ohio.
"When I first saw who was in the qualifier, I thought, 'Oh, did I pick the wrong place?' " said Paesani, a four-time Section Player of the Year and winner of three Section championships and the 2001 Connecticut Open. "Then I said, 'No way. If you can't beat these guys, then why think about playing in the championship.'
"Beating guys like that got me to start to believe in my talent. It was really cool and put me in a good frame of mind. I hit a lot of good shots and the ball went in the hole. It reminded me of when I was talking to Fran after the Stroke Play Championship. He said, 'It's not a people game, it's a numbers game.' It doesn't matter who's playing, just what the numbers are, and that's the way I'll feel when I get to Ohio. If I shoot 280 for 72 holes, I know I'll be in pretty good shape regardless of who's play."
The question is: Who from the Paesani clan will be watching?
"Last year, it was like a zoo with so much family," Paesani said with a chuckle.
The "zoo" included Kristen, son/caddie Matt, his ex-wife and several other friends. Matt, 16, is assured of going because he'll be caddying again, but Kristen is listed as questionable.
"I know she really wants to go, but she feels an obligation to her babysitting job," Paesani said. "We'll see what happens."
Regardless, the 52-year-old Paesani, one of the game's really good/fun guys, can take pride in being 2-for-2 in his quest to reach the Champions Tour's premier event. It will be the fifth major championship for Paesani, who also played in the 1988 and 1997 PGA Championship and the 1991 U.S. Open. Best of luck, John, and have a terrific time with Matt - and anyone else who shows up.
